EPISODE 194: How To Heal Your Suppressed Sexuality: After Vaginismus and Infidelity: Chris and Christina Sellers

EPISODE 194: How To Heal Your Suppressed Sexuality: After Vaginismus and Infidelity: Chris and Christina Sellers

Chris and Christina Sellers married at a young age were both raised in American Christianity. Their sexualities oppressed and suppressed by the dogma of religion; now they're both finding healing after infidelity and vaginismus. This is their therapeutic story.

EPISODE 193: Recovering Your Sex Life After Religion: Chris and Christina Sellers

EPISODE 193: Recovering Your Sex Life After Religion: Chris and Christina Sellers

Chris and Tina fell in love as teenagers in a Christian Mega Church. As they’ve deconstructed their past faith together, they realized how much the suppression of sex through purity culture in Christianity not only stifled their sex life but almost ruined their relationship.

EPISODE 168: A Christian Marries a Satanist: Little Bear and Tobias

EPISODE 168: A Christian Marries a Satanist: Little Bear and Tobias

Part 3 of 3: Little Bear and Tobias are models of the type of human inclusivity this podcast is all about. Human inclusivity is real and can grow within us all. Little Bear and Tobias show us how.

UPDATE: Thank You for the Love Over the Break! What's Next?: Zac Gandara

UPDATE: Thank You for the Love Over the Break! What's Next?: Zac Gandara

If you're a fellow "Loser" with us, then you know that I just took my first break from the podcast since launch in 2015. This episode is an update on how “the break” has been going and when we will be back up with weekly episodes.

EPISODE 159: Hitting Pause: Zac Gandara

EPISODE 159: Hitting Pause: Zac Gandara

Some big news for the podcast as we've moved into a new studio! Which has coincided with my marriage transitioning into a new place? Candidness, transparency, and honesty are the values of the podcast, right?

EPISODE 142: How the Hell are We Still Married?: Zac & Jen Gandara

EPISODE 142: How the Hell are We Still Married?: Zac & Jen Gandara

Jen and I have been through a lot of stuff. We're often wondering. How in the hell are we still married? How have we been together for 18 years and not cheated on each other, left each other, divorced each other, or had kids? Well, our story isn't everyone, but it's ours.

EPISODE 123: The Annual Holiday Card Episode 2017: Zac and Jen Gandara

EPISODE 123: The Annual Holiday Card Episode 2017: Zac and Jen Gandara

Every year, Jen joins me on our Annual Holiday Card Episode!  This year we get personal as always.

What do we believe these days?  Will we have kids?  What’s going on in Therapy?  How is the show funded?  Why haven’t we done more live shows?  Will we do more?  Why doesn’t Zac want to talk about God?  Religious and societal pressures around marriage, children, and parenting.  What’s next for the podcast in 2018?

EPISODE 120: Marriage After Religion and Bruce Lee's Finger: Brendan Gladney

EPISODE 120: Marriage After Religion and Bruce Lee's Finger: Brendan Gladney

Brendan is a producer of the show, who knew me before church hierarchy and becoming a pastor.  We’ve reconnected through the solidarity of leaving religion and have found common ground in working through our wounds with therapists to heal our lives, marriages, relationships, and so much more. Brendan's experiences, stories, and lessons he's learned will be helpful to every listener.