Even in our everyday relationships, there are signs of "abuse." The human race is not as self-aware as we should be. How do we recognize relationship abuse? How do we begin to set boundaries?
SIGNS OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP
Does something, denies it, and then exclaims you are crazy. (Gaslighting)
Accuses you of doing things you aren’t doing in which they are actually doing. (Projection)
Does a great job at promising a great future and then delivering a nightmare.
Are chronic liars and are highly manipulative.
Uses guilt, charm, hope, love, obligation, fear, or confusion to get what they want, or to get you to do what they want.
Often likes to agitate, provoke, argue, or “make you out to be crazy” and then pretends to not know why you are so upset.
Has a “Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde” personality.
Has a staggering lack of empathy and (sincere) remorse for their behavior.
Yells, name calls, belittles, gives the silent treatment.
(Source unknown. Producer Harmony Nicole sent these in. Thanks Harmony!)
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