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MONDAY MELTDOWN: Change and Attachments Suck: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Change and Attachments Suck: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

Change is always hard. By nature, we often want to keep things the way there are because we love the way they are. But what happens when change comes? Does it often involve anguish and suffering? Can we get better? Do we have to feel like this during transition?

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Healing From Narcissistic Abuse: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

Many of us have been caught in the web of a narcissistic boss, family member, friend, or partner. It took us too long to recognize the signs, now we have. How can we begin healing?

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Waiting for a Savior or Making It Happen: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Waiting for a Savior or Making It Happen: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

Have you ever felt like there is a glass ceiling hanging over you? Is it stopping you from stepping out towards your dreams? What is that? How do we get rid of it? Are we a victim waiting for a savior?

MONDAY MELTDOWN: F*ck It! If it Helps You, Do it!: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: F*ck It! If it Helps You, Do it!: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

One of the downfalls of losing religion is we often lose our coping mechanisms that came along with it. Even though they may have been unhealthy, is it possible to create new ones or can you reincarnate the old to be better?

MONDAY MELTDOWN: We Can Stop Feeling Bad for Needing Things to Help Us: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: We Can Stop Feeling Bad for Needing Things to Help Us: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

After leaving religion or cult-like ideologies, we often feel bad for needing aspects of them again. We should feel free to go back and pick up the rituals that help us.

MONDAY MELTDOWN: The Health Insurance and Greed Dilemma: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: The Health Insurance and Greed Dilemma: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

A fellow Loser writes in to vent about their Christian boss who gives hugs but doesn’t pay a livable wage or provide healthcare for his employees.

THINKING THURSDAY: So Sick of Teams: Zac Gandara: Joe Rogan: Penn Jillette

THINKING THURSDAY: So Sick of Teams: Zac Gandara: Joe Rogan: Penn Jillette

Thinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together.

Soon after I left Christianity, I realized that in leaving conservative dogma, I hadn’t changed much in terms of my mentality of “Us Vs. Them” which I despised so much. I was now just in a different boat; I was now in the liberal boat. Can we truly live without picking teams?

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Conversion Therapy Founder Comes out as Gay and Leadership Dualism: Zac Gandara

MONDAY MELTDOWN: Conversion Therapy Founder Comes out as Gay and Leadership Dualism: Zac Gandara

Monday Meltdown is our weekly time to chat with each other. This week…

“Conversion therapy is not just a lie, but it’s very harmful,” McKrae Game said. Game is one of several former conversion therapy advocates who have come out as LGBTQ and condemned the practice of conversion therapy. So many leaders live dualistic lives have you seen it in your world?